Not all Chinese in Southeast Asia are rich and in Indonesia there are many poor ethnic Chinese. Some of them are concentrated in Singkawang that has traditionally “produced” wives for sale to men from Malaysia, Taiwan, Singapore, China and where there are pockets of ethnic Chinese.
Unspun bets that the bridegrooms in this case are as old and unsavory as the old unsavory Westerners preying on young nubile Asian women that we often see. But if it makes them both happy, who’s to say its wrong?
How to Get a Wife in Singkawang
Most of the men who come to Singkawang looking for young women to marry are from Taiwan, China, Malaysia, or Singapore. These men arrive, get in touch with a broker, the broker then approaches a family with a suitably aged girl and generally offers the parents about five million rupiah (a bit over $500) for her.
The overseas men of course pay the broker much more than this figure, with one 2006 Singapore source suggesting the fee is around 30 million rupiah (about $3,000). Often a time period is stipulated in the contract as well, like two or five years, or sometimes very short periods, and often there is in fact no legal marriage. [2] |
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Do you know how much I should charge my white American husband? I hope it’s not too late to ask for some money …
your an embecile . why get married on the internet in the 1st place. you dope..
If he is your husband, you should be getting money, why do you need to ask for it.
hello,i am a Asia woman,i want to say”why buy woman?”so carzy!if you want married please pay yor true heart!
@Andie: You mean he hasn’t paid upfront money for you already? Someone’s gotten the raw end of a deal here
Andiesummerkiss…u must be crazy to bow so low. Isn’t he taking good care of u? lol
The double “unsavoury” is always a nice touch, particularly when a “preying” follows close behind!
As you are fond of doing perhaps we should ask some of the Indonesian women who have been preyed upon to offer up their take on the matter!
Just because an older western or caucasian man marries a younger Asian woman does not mean that it is always the old white bloke preying on the poor Asian woman!
The situation that this post refers to is one that is rife with bad stories by the sounds of things. However, it is unfair to take these examples and use them as a generalization to apply to all inter-racial relationships.
Hopefully, stories like this one can gain widespread coverage and garner sufficient interest in the community that if this is a situation of poverty dictating the practice then these families can get support and programs can be put into place to address the issues.
Secondly, I hope this finally puts to rest the idea that all Indonesians of Chinese heritage are filthy rich and living off the misery of the indigenous Indonesia population. Clearly in Singkawang there is severe poverty and this wealth does not exist, except perhaps with the brokers in these transactions.
In any event after 4 or 5 generations in a particular country I think you have earned the right to just be Indonesian without the addition of Chinese or Arab or Indian or whatever other ancestories exist.
Unspun…
I thought I posted something to this thread…maybe I am going insane or maybe akismet captured it…
I recently read something interesting about Internet black holes and electronic information being sucked in to them and disappearing forever without a trace…maybe that is what happened?
Now I think I have posted twice without success?
Thanks…for releasing the captured comments!
As if Asian girls aren’t introverted enough, just rip them from their mommy’s bosom! Talk about reclusive!
chinese girls r the best want 1 for myself.
So how do I get one ?????????
go to http://www.mr-cupid.com for more info.
I saw that country. Everbody must been there. And i dont know what can i say about chinese girl. (:
SHAME ON YOU PEOPLE!!! SHAME ON YOU
“old unsavory Westerners preying on young nubile Asian women that we often see.”
Yep I sure am, wife is 34, I’m 37, however she is Asian and I am Caucasian so I guess I fit the bill. Strange though, that I come from a mostly blue collar background, auto workers, farmers, construction workers, etc. Her family are all white collar, VP of a bank, regional director for a major pharmaceutical company, film producer, engineers. I am such a predator that when I first moved to Asia her family gave me a new car for a gift and helped us get set up. They even forced let us live in their 15 room house for a year while our business was getting off the ground.
Thinking of it actually, since her family is rich and mine is not, perhaps we can change your quote.
“young nubile Asian women preying on old unsavory Westerners that we often see.”
Why not? Her family is far richer and better educated then mine. So she must have been playing on the inequities in our social standings and preying upon me. Now I feel violated. Sure glad she did it though.
oops bad cut and paste. first line was suppose to be
*****Wow, I just realized I am one of the*****
This is a note to Rob. You are bloody right Mate. I am an “older” guy from the UK and have been married to a young Indonesian for 5 wonderful years. We live in Probolinggo and I never want to return to the UK. We even started a webpage http://www.an-asian-wife.com to match up Western men with Indonesian women. Since 2003 we have never had any of the couples split up so we must be doing something right! We even state of the site that “Indonesian women are not for sale.”
i bought my chinese wife off ebay for $3.60:)
it was awesome, she came clean apart from the bird flu
it was the best buy of my life
lol some of you are bunch of sick mofo’s hahaha
Hi, You made good thing, kindly tell me how you got your wife as I will do as you did. Please
khetiar99@yahoo.com
If joke, extremely funny… If really asking… I need to refer you to my shrink…
Don’t give up your day job.
It’s sad that women are sold as brides to foreign men. But I suppose if these men are genuinely looking for a wife and family life, it could be a blessing for these women as they are taken out of poverty.
I would like to buy a chinese wife, who can i get to help me. or how would i go about doing so.
go to http://www.mr-cupid.com for more info
Wow alot of young boys read this site with only one hand left over to use the keyboard.
wanting to hear from you
I want an asian girl beacause all these black girls today
want money!! Especially here in america!!. I dont mind
paying for things, but all the subjects with them is money!!
Going to the park, you have to buy her a new outfit, plus
make sure her hands and feet are pretty, and her hair!!! talk
about expensive trip to the park. Other wise she will not go.
So fornow i have a dog i go to the park with. (sigh) I cant
wait to get my asian wife!!!
Why are Chinese such scumbags? You see it in every chatroom and in every interaction in Asia. Chinese people think they can buy other people. With the Westerner, at least the girl has a chance to say no. With the Chinese, they see women as something that can be bought and sold.
FUCK THE CHINESE
I wonder if buying and selling wives will be listed on the Shanghai Composite Index or sold as an ETF and begin a new “commodities” bubble! Or how about a Singaporean style of Certificate Of Entitlement that they currently have for the right to own a vehicle placed on women, and these certificates to be bought and sold on the stock exchanges? I wonder if there will also be options and futures market and if one could short sell them just the same.
I don’t think you realize that along with other commodities, such as oil, Hog, Porkbellies, cattle, women, can be traded on the Shanghai Composite Index. I bet they would have their own NYMEX or CBOT where a wife can be bought and sold based on the supply and demand fundamentals of looking at the shortage of women vs men, like crude oil speculation. How about a futures contract on finding available women and buying and selling women using options and futures? Also, we should have ETF’s like Pro Shares Bride + Bull ETF, Pro Shares Bride + Bear ETF.
Chinese are scumbags for one simple reason. Money is their Lord – ‘pecunia non olet’ – for them it is perfume which bewitches. Indonesians have their Black Magic, Chinks have their money. The Chinese in Singkawang are different, of course, they suffer from leprosy – or that is what the well-heeled Chinese think !
Wow, pure un-adulterated racism, I don’t hear that too often these days, which is a good thing. Unfortunately there are still a few Neanderthals amongst us.
To the people with the 2 posts above mine. I am sure “every” one of the 1.5 billion Chinese people around the world are exact as what your describing.
Idiots.
I see, there are still some Neanderthals stalking. I guess you bestow the honour of being one of them to my me. Do I undertand correctly ?
Indok are super scambags too, believing in black magic yet a muslim. their lord is invisible often follow what ulamama said. too stupid till dont have a mind to think, indok gals so cheap as 1000 rupiah when i was in jakarta but so ugly and too dark. really pissed me off. no wonder nobody wan to rape a indok dog. indok still living in jungle now. lazy and greedy. tats is malay and indok ….native of jungles…even thai is better than them. is indok languange known is this world? indok also busy fighting among themselves. if so daring, hit a chinese ship and see what happen…lousy navy of indok cant even fights singapore’s.
i doubt you met a girl. it must be a topeng monyet performing on the street you had tried to rape. did you get your rabies vaccine? too late i think, having seen how you mourned here.
…altered mental status, confusion, disoriented, short tempered, impaired judgement, hysterical, anxiousness, patient demoralized, depressed, fearful…suggest you visit your doctor immediately, but make sure you have a companion with you, who knows, you might need help to differentiate a doctor from a vet. good luck!
whoa, how ugly & poor are you, mate? scouring the city for ho’s & cheap ones, at that.
my frined ,(Indok are super scambags too, believing in black magic yet a muslim. their lord is invisible often follow what ulamama said. too stupid till dont have a mind to think,).
I think you should think again about who is (Have no mind to think),who lives like an animal just eating ,sleeping,enjoying, and who lives like human being and thinking for what after death.
well, indok may have 4 wives….woman for keeping? or have 4 dicks? why cant indok gal can have 4 husband? orgy???? haha…even indok comes to malaysia as sabahans. dont dare to say is indok..y??? afraid of masscare? well, sure happen coz myself have beaten many indok during may 1998 in malaysia. they just hiding and claim as malay.
oh yeah…i think you are stupid.unless you are impotent or a sissy then you will not fuck other girls besides your girlfriend or wife…that’s if you have any..maybe next time you wife will try other guys dicks and i wonder how will you feel.if you really dare to beat up indonesian then come DARELY to indonesia and beat them up.DON BE A CHICKEN who only talk in your own country…every girls in this world are not all pretty…do your really think all chinese are beautiful…if you really want to fuck pretty girls PAY more…IDIOT.maybe you are to stingy and maybe the RP1000 you paid is to fuck a dog that belongs to humans.. .do you know RP1000 is only around SGD 15 cents..where did the hell did you go in jakarta to find a hooker that cheap..maybe they will pay you 1 cent to get you undressed or to get laid by doggsss…i don’t think any other country will dare to hit chinese ship..
it is the same answer,If you study islam,you will know what happened when women marry more than one man and why men should marry more than one women,you should wait tell the west start do that ,then you will convince,just wait..
Oh Jimmy how right you are. Them Indoks run away when they saw Capt.Westerling some 50 years ago. Just read up on history. I tell you what them Indoks are great at: CORRUPTION. That is their raison d’ etre to lfe. As to the number of wives they have – who wants them ugly women, just like marauding dogs…
may god always give brain and heart to all humans He created. if no brain at least heart would be enough
for me , i hope from my deep heart to marry chinese or indonesian wife , i am muslim egyptian engineer living in cairo now , after living in dubaifor about one year and dial with chinese people , i hope really to marry chinese wife i hope if some one can help me to find muslim chinese wife , in my opinion its much better than arabian or western wife .
This is BS. Have you been there? How could you guess something?
I would like to buy a chinese wife, who can i get to help me. or how would i go about doing so. They respect husband more tan any other ones. please Notify me of follow-up comments via email.
The only people on the chinese side who gain anything are her parents… In my eyes it’s not a case of making EVERYONE happy… when you buy and sell a woman as a commodity it isn’t about her want’s at all.
These women may need money to have a better life, but I’m pretty sure they don’t need any of the disgusting and abusive acts that follow.
Buying a girl is wrong… no matter which way you look at it… the fact you have to buy her from her parents makes it even worse…
That can depend on the situation. Most cases can be wrong, but if its something similar to the Romeo and Juliet scenario then it sounds pretty decent thing to do.
Its also up to the parents. I’m sure MOST of the parents think of what will happen to their daughter before they get her sold off. Its not like they just throw her out into a cage and ship her to what ever country she will live in. In a common sense, its reasonable to say that the parents knew exactly who is buying and what is displayed in the “contract” and how they can benefit from their end of the deal. Though the act itself is rather crude and unloving, I’m sure the parents think about it to the extent of their educational limits until they are pushed enough to accept the deal.
To all those people who keep asking how to buy one, Do you really think taking care of something like that is that easy? Money, trade, contracts, connections, and everything else makes it seem less worthwhile including the risks that come with it.
And just a note: I’m very sure less then half of them are fully vaccinated let alone able to afford it.
I think what bothers alot of people is the very thought that ‘unmatching” people are getting together and, god forbid!…Enjoying life!!!
Geez, I couldn’t imagine being so judgemental.
Hi
where can I buy a chinese wife will do anytime as they are the best and this can be a good arragment as her and her family will get a better live and you get a wife whats wrong with that
wifes are not for sale…
for God sake, even you guys give their parents money they are not for sale!!!
Because when you said you buy a wive then you can just do whatever you want to do to her. always hurt her all the time. they are not property. I am so sad reading this. Wives for sale.
I would like to buy a chinese wife, who can i get to help me. or how would i go about doing so. I’m sick of american wifes. I live in Hawaii on Maui and want someone to join me in my life.
Gotta love Asian women. They prefer older men. My wife is Chinese and 27. I am 43. I did not “purchase” her, we met online. We have been married 3 1/2 years now. She never even had a boyfriend before. I was her first relationship. She is loyal and dedicated to our relationship. She is not spoiled by American ways and I love that.
Authorities should read and identify such bad people who talk about women as object. We know how bad can the world be, but when we talk about marriage, it should involve love. I really hope you get what you deserve.
Beautiful or ugly is just what reflects from the inside.
AGAIN,…I would like to buy a chinese wife, who can i get to help me. or how would i go about doing so. I’m sick of american wifes. I live in Hawaii on Maui and want someone to join me in my life
HELP
How would i go about buying a wife, or who can i get help from? im sick of English women treating me like sh#t.
Poor you Marc … I thought English women were all like Lady Di.
Dear there,
I don’t want buy a wife, I want to get married in proper way, but I want her honest, not married before and have no boys friends. Wish to find who can help but not with fees $3,000.00
Help please….
I don’t believe these stories about buying wives. Certainly not for only US$3000. $3000 is a drop in the ocean compared to what men spend on their wives here. If you could really get an attractive wife for $3000, half the men in America would be bidding on them, and there would be brokers in every shopping mall. But try to track these stories down and you’ll always find that it came from someone who heard it from a friend who heard it from a friend who read it on the internet etc.
@Macossay: You’ve lived in Asia for some time before?
As a turist in Indo. for over a year, I can say that it is indeed tru that money can buy just about anything here. Although, I am shure that some people would “buy a wife” just to have as a item or sex slave or status symbol, I have seen only good relationships as a result. It is fairly comon for a person to have to pay a dowery in some countries. In this country, a person can pay a family an agreed price (yes the girl is in on it too) to help convince them that he is a worthy man. The girl is not kidnaped or dragged away unwillingly. The results of this marrage usualy result in the husband and wife being quite happy. Her familly reciving not just a one time payment and losing their daughter but also having the joy of knowing she will be well provided for. They usualy get visited once in a while and recive finacial help if they run in to problems. After all, they are family…
Don’t ever think that you can just purchase a woman. If you do, she will not be what you expect. Every one, every race of people, are all still people. We all need the same stuff to survie and be happy.
It is far easier, to simply go out and meet a girl that is atractive here in Indonesia, than it would be to convince here family to sell her to you. But remembeer,,, They all like money!
I have been living in Indonesia for over ten years. There are many people who have attractive daughters, and they are seen as a financial asset to the family. Most people are so immersed in poverty, it is a blessing to have a daughter who is attractive. A family who lives on white rice every day, seasoned with salted fish and maybe some wild vegetables harvested near the house, would give serious consideration to a lump sum amount of money for the priveledge of relieving the family of an extra mouth to feed. It happens most often to the poor people, the wealthy people arrange political marriges for their childen. I have been witness to negotiations for virgin price, usually around five hundred dollars USD, paid to the father. And the reason there are not “brokers in the malls,” a comment above, is that this is grey market. It could be seen as prostitution. The women who are purchased in a deal like this are very lucky indeed. The man with the money to buy them has the money to feed them well and take them away from their hovel. The alternative is daily, nearly slave labor, with improper nutrition, for the rest of their lives, planting rice season by season until their bones are so twisted from bending over, they cannot stand up straight. 40 is old age. Third world countries have a base of poverty that is literally unimaginable to the “poor” people in the States. Who is to say that something is wrong for another person to do? Everyone makes their choices with knowledge of their own situation. It is not for outsiders to judge the actions of another.
Hi, if thecase as you said, what about to make goodthing for me and for a poor and honest girl you know. To marry me in legal manner, buy a house for her in Probolinggo, will live a verygood life and will be treated as real wife as queen. Make it for Allah sake. Age not more than 35. May be abd you will be friends am at khetiar99@yahoo.com Thank you so much.
I have found a wonderful chinese/indo woman online and we have shared hundreds of chats for nearly a year. I am not a rich American but am able to support this woman on my pensions and leave her with a good inheritance if I should die first.
She would likely come to me here in the US after my divorce is accomplished. What is the best route to take to make our dream come true?
To add to my above comment, I am a woman.
To add another comment, American wives are purchased as well. Just in a different way. What woman would marry a man who cannot care for her? The dating ritual is all about showing the woman how much money you can spend on her. No woman will give herself to a man who does not own a house, a car, a bank account, credit cards, etc. and willing to blow money on her. And if the man cuts the money off, the woman cuts the honey off. Telling me that’s not prostitution? That’s life! Nothing wrong with it at all except from the point of view of some spoiled people who have never been hungry before. The women in caveman days would not have mated with the weakling that had no food, but with the strong hunter who had lots of furs to keep them warm. It’s survival instinct.
hi i wonder if i been bought by american he say he love me but he take me on plane to america and lock me in bedroom but we have wedding ring. everynight he come home and we go to bed. I love him but im not sure if he love me or buy me o
most likely. take a look at his paypal account
Doesn’t seem like internet access is an issue however?
Hey guys, I’m planning to make a film about buying a Chinese wife, does anyone have some good ideas or stories?
Hey guys, it just an issue or realy truth…i ever stay & live in S’kawang but never knows about these stories.
I like the Chinese girl, they so… amazing in bed..ha.ha.ha..
I’m interested to beuty chinese girl and want find one. No problem with Us$3000, becouse….in the present time is easy to looking for womans but hard to looking for a wife… specialy for professional with a good career in overseas but don’t have time for funs !!!!
Anybody can help me…how could to buy one, i’ll apreciate if you could send me an email !!!
I was bidding on one on eBay. Got up to $21.43 and I ran out of money to bid more. Anyone know where I can get loan to buy chinese wife?
I NEED A CHINESE WIFE!!!! the dishes are piling up in the kitchen and the floor needs vaccuming.
what so good with chinese girl? people from uzbek,north india, malay, are very delicate…
I want to know the method of bringing the Indo/Chinese woman from Indonesia to the USA without paying big money to agents. Who do you talk to to get it done easily?
I have a neighbour who is from Uzbekistan. He came earned some money here in Russia then went back to Uzbekistan and bought a wife and brought here over here. He is 31 and she is 20
would like to see woman with big sexy legs will pay must see first age around 30 and above send picture via email
Can i buy a second wife for around 1000 USD? She must have strong legs though and need to cook well. I don’t want some skinny malnutrition girl as over here there is plenty. if there an agency that set this up let me know…
Hi China man, if there are plenty of girls whom you called skinny, be kind and nominate one for me, you will be reworded.
Thank you for your kind help.
Dear there,
I don’t want buy a wife, I want to get married in proper way, but I want her honest, not married before and have no boys friends. Wish to find who can help with normal fees
Help please
hassanhudavi@gmail.com
i am working in Dubai . I am interested in marrying a Indodesian MUSLIM Women who live in Dubai or intersted to come Dubai.
Please contact me
hassanhudavi@gmail.com
i am working in Dubai . I am interested in marrying a Indodesian MUSLIM Women who live in Dubai or intersted to come Dubai.
Please contact me
newboy444@gmail.com
haha, follow your heart…weak minded fools. i know ill find my very own asian girl someday… :/
well love has no boundary. haha…
Most women (and some men) still believe that love is something that men really give a darn about. Love will come later. Men want to be respected, to be taken care of the same way we have to take care of the women. We get a measly half and hour (at best) of enjoyment in the bed (per day) and the remaining 23 1/2 hours we are taking care of our part of the responsibility, I would buy a wife in a heartbeat and I think its the greatest idea since toilet paper. Were can I find one NOW. Whats the difference in the traditional way. We pay aaalll this money anyway and end up with half of what those men who pay get. Email me NOW ……lharp5@me.com
hi all
i am an arabic man searching for faithfull wife and good mannered.
if there is any i can afford her a good standered of living.
just e mail me hazoom007@hotmail.com
lol, you must be jooking right? looking for a wife at a blog post? Please use craiglist instead. Maybe you lucky enough to found 3 or 4 desperate girl looking for arabian man.
so you already tried this?
i mean posting in craiglist to find a wife?
Be careful, most of them are cheaters. It is up to you.
I travel the world looking for wife. is fun…
Great hobie. But want a good one… to keep
Cupid will find me one day,
Its all b/s chinese,japanese,skip,westerner..whats the diff!! i fucked em all and without a shadow of a doubt…its all about money…its all about bettering there position getting what they want…the only ones that make good for a while are the ones leaving abusive relationships …im selfish i honestly dont give a fuck what they think ..and im in the position to do it and they still come if they dont like me hahaha!!! fuck the vile cunts ..and that goes for any faggot lover boy who thinks different…..soft cunts who willfully sucuumb ..live in denial u fuckers !!!
Oracle telling the truth. Be careful, they love money more than anything else. bye