Below is a selection from Sex and Science Goddess Elzabeth Pisani’s post on why Malaysian Deputy Health Minister’s exhortation to Malaysian women to carry condoms may not help them get laid, as well as the supposed sexual habits of the Malay man.

Wonder if the latter is a stretch of a claim? Unspun was always told by female friends in Malaysia that have had cross-cultural intercourse that Malay men make better lovers than their Chinese counterparts. If they are lazy then what does that make the China apek?

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A condom in the hand is not worth one in the bush

Malaysia’s deputy health minister recently urged Malaysian women to carry condoms. And he was especially attentive to the Malay majority, recognising that about three quarters of reported HIV cases in Malaysia are among ethnic Malays, who make up just under two thirds of the population. Many of these are men who inject drugs.

women don’t have anywhere to put a condom. So even if they have a chance to have sex, they can’t necessarily translate a condom in the own purse into a condom on their partner’s penis.
as one sex worker remarked to me not that long ago: “Malay men are really lazy. If they’re standing in front of you ready to play and you pull out a condom, they’re not going to fight it. Too lazy.”
Bagimana, kawan kawan? Benar nggak?
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6 thoughts on “Condoms, Malaysian women and Malay men

  1. loh, haven’t Malay women heard of female condom? it’s stupid though, female already have complicated reproduction system, why shud they still have to make it more complicated. but in the case when the men are so lazy like that, perhaps that’s one solution to consider.


  2. Excuse me, why the responsibility falls into women, again?

    Both parties should take responsibility of practicing safe sex, both should take condoms wherever they go.

    If men are too lazy to carry condoms, just shut the door lah and say bye-bye!


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