Love but do not fall in love…


When Unspun was young and did not take life easy he received a piece of advice in this for: “each time you think that you’re indispensable to your workplace, go to a cemetery and reflect how many lying there thought themselves indispensable in their lifetimes. Yet there they are and here we are. The world has just continued going along fine and still spinning without them.”

Here is a speech delivered by a Narayana Murthy, CEO of a premier IT company of India during an employee session. He was ranked one of the top 50 Influential people of Asia by Asiaweek. Unspun is not sure where he delivered this speech or what occasion but it’s still worth taking note of what he said. So relax brothers and sisters, don’t take that job too seriously after hours.

LOVE YOUR JOB, BUT NEVER FALL IN LOVE WITH YOUR COMPANY BECAUSE YOU NEVER KNOW WHEN YOUR COMPANY WILL STOP LOVING YOU

I know people who work 12 hours a day, six days a week, or more. Some people do so because of a work emergency where the long hours are only temporary. Other people I know have put in these hours for years!!! I don’t know if they are working all these hours, but I do know they are in the office this long. Others put in long office hours because they are addicted to the workplace.

Whatever the reason for putting in overtime, working long hours over the long term is harmful to the person and to the organization. There are things managers can do to change this for everyone’s benefit. Being in the office long hours, over long periods of time, makes way for potential errors. My colleagues who are in the office long hours frequently make mistakes caused by fatigue. Correcting these mistakes requires their time as well as the time and energy of others. I have seen people work Tuesday through Friday to correct mistakes made after 5 PM on Monday.

Another problem is that people who are in the office long hours are NOT pleasant company. They often complain about other people (who aren’t working as hard); they are irritable, or cranky, or even angry. Other people avoid them. Such behaviour poses problems, where work goes much better when people work together instead of avoiding one another. As Managers, there are things we can do to help people leave the office. First and foremost is to set the example and go home ourselves. I work with a manager who chides people for working long hours. His words quickly lose their meaning when he sends these chiding group e-mails with a
time-stamp of 2 AM, Sunday. Second is to encourage people to put some BALANCE in their lives. For instance, here is a guideline I find helpful:

1) Wake up, eat a good breakfast, and go to work.

2) Work hard and smart for eight or nine hours.

3) Go home.

4) Read the books/comics, watch a funny movie, dig in the dirt, play with (your) kids, etc.
5) Eat well and sleep well. This is called recreating. Doing steps 1, 3, 4, and 5 enable step 2. Working regular hours and recreating daily are simple concepts. They are hard for some of us because that requires ‘personal change’. They are possible since we all have the power to choose to do them. In considering the issue of overtime, I am reminded of my oldest son. When he was a toddler, if people were visiting the apartment, he would not fall asleep no matter how long the visit, and no matter what time of day it was.

He would fight off sleep until the visitors left. It was as if he was afraid that he would miss something. Once our visitors’ left, he would go to sleep. By this time, however, he was over tired and would scream through half the night with nightmares. He, my wife, and I, all paid the price for his fear of missing out.

Perhaps some people put in such long hours because they don’t want to miss anything when they leave the office. The trouble with this is that events will NEVER stop happening. That is life !! Things happen 24 hours a day. Allowing for little rest is not ultimately practical. So, take a nap.

Things will happen while you’re asleep, but you will have the energy to catch up when you wake. Hence “LOVE YOUR JOB BUT NEVER FALL IN LOVE WITH YOUR COMPANY”

Live a life like you should

6 responses to “Love but do not fall in love…”

  1. When I was working for INSEAD in Singapore, I remember waking up early and be the first to arrive at office. A few times I was the last to leave.

    I loved the job. I also loved the company.

    A question that always hangs around at speeches like Mr Murthy, is: isn’t it personal choice for people to work as late as they wish?

    But now I understand that at least in the Singapore context, it’s a rat race to the bottom. Taken in aggregate, everyone’s personal choice seems to be to work late, and everyone else is just influenced to work late. A result: Singaporeans are, as Mr Murthy said: complainers, irritable, or cranky, or even angry most of the times.

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  2. I know a friend who used to believe in Mr Murthy’s philosophy so much so that he used to send this message to all his friends. He spoke passionately about this to the people he met.

    One day he was promoted to the position of CEO of his company. The suddenchange in circumstances also changed his perception of how work should be carried out. He was under pressure to perform and for the company to perform. He made all his staff work late and set an example himself working seven days a week.

    Whew! What a load of hot air!

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  3. Achmad Sudarsono Avatar
    Achmad Sudarsono

    Hey Friend – Bayi – Are you saying Indonesians are lazy ? Next time take a look in the eye of the pemulung dragging his cart (gerobak) around the city, starting at dawn and going into the early hours of the morning, gathering the rubbish of the rich people. This is not laziness, my friend.

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  4. A S

    Don’t be so bl**dy sensitive, man! Every time a comment is made, it is directed at your kind. Read the text carefully. Where are the Indonesians mentioned?

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  5. Bayi: Must warn you that Achmad is a pathological stirrer 🙂

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  6. Achmad Sudarsono Avatar
    Achmad Sudarsono

    Bayi — Ha ha ha ha ; P . The good Unspun is right in this case…just stirring…BTW — lovely, peaceful sea-image on your shopfront, sending calming vibes across the Blogosphere.

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